Finding a new home in Africa

Reaching Uganda :The Pearl of Africa :Part 1

Home is where the heart lies. I am not talking about buying a piece of land to build a house or buying an apartment in a sought after location with all modern amenities for a comfortable living. It was somewhere in mid-January in the year 2017 when I along with my husband had reached Uganda for the first time. Although for him, Africa was quite familiar as he had already worked in almost five to six countries in the East African region.

I had just got married in India a month back during that time. Imagine the heights of anxiety and apprehensions that I was surrounded with, on my first few days in a new country in a new continent. A month ago, I had just resigned from a job in IIT Guwahati where I was quite happy with my work and life and also I was near home for every weekend to see my parents.

Life was taking me through a different route. A married girl miles away from her parents, siblings, away from a job for the first time and of course the Indian crowd. It was a multitude of changes which I had to accept and manage myself in a very short period of time. I still remember how much desperate I was to hunt for some work, be it banking , NGO or any decent school or educational institution in Kampala,the capital city of Uganda. It was a really very tough time for both of us to find myself a desirable job in a country far far away home.At times my husband even got ready to quit his job for my sake but i always forbade him to do so.

Months rolled on.I gradually began to accept life as it is with my inner self always persuading me to find solutions to my problems that cropped up at various stages of my life. It is my honest confession. I had always been more than an average student in my entire educational career.A career good enough to have landed in some decent government job in India and would have fetched a fortune of peace and stability in job life. This is how most Indians think. But today I really do not regret at all. I am happy for what I am. I have surrendered myself to time, the supreme element of life.

Another turning point …..It was somewhere in the month of August 2017. I suddenly became a victim of dental problems.Medical facilities were not that sound in the country.Moreover, the cost was abnormally high here.It is like unless one buys a good amount of medical insurance, one cannot afford medical facilities here. Moreover, during that time I had some urgent calling from home which needed my immediate attention and response. So I immediately decided to fly back home.And yes, in the process, I missed my NRI tag just for two days! I could just complete 178 days of my stay here in my first league. But the best part of this trip really paid me well. My hard work and persuasion to take transit to the teaching career corporate sector bore me fruit.I succeeded in UGC NET in 2017 (an examination in India to be eligible to be an Assistant Professor in Colleges and Universities).I had been preparing and sitting for this exam for a few number of times , like most other peers of my times ,amidst hectic corporate schedule of yester years .But this time of course ,a preparation with no work pressure in Uganda really helped a lot .

20 thoughts on “Finding a new home in Africa

    1. I have found your article very motivating,in the sense that some times we need to step out of our comfort zones to appreciate nature.
      You decided to leave your would be comfort in India and joined your husband in the cradle land of Africa!
      It clearly demonstrates your love not only for your husband,but humanity as whole.

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  1. Tough experience but atleast you had someone close to you, how about if your husband wasn’t around with you..It is impressive of you to have adopted so fast with a culture,an environment u knew not,possibly only heard of a Uganda which am certain wasn’t exciting.Lets see how part 2 went along.

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  2. May God bless ur stay here…. Its never easy to start a journey but persistence and determination make everything simple. Thanks for not giving up and sharing your experience with us. We love you..


  3. May God bless ur stay here…. Its never easy to start a journey but persistence and determination make everything simple. Thanks for not giving up and sharing your experience with us. We love you..

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  4. A very well expressed first hand account of your experiences in a foreign land….This is life dear…You will never appreciate the sunshine unless you see the darker days. .. May God give you immense strength to overcome all the obstacles on your way.🙌

    Looking forward to the second part…👍👍

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  5. The article expresses your emotions, persistence and determination in a very natural way. Sometimes life gives your new situations which demand lots of sacrifices coupled with the apprehension of getting exposed to new risks.
    You have bravely used them as learning experiences, moving forward with a renewed vigour after every new challenge. I am so lucky to be somewhat significant in taking a share of your journey till this point of your life.
    May God bless both of you as you take new strides in the future…love you always!

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